You Either Get Lost In The Crowd Or Emerge As A Winner…

In the walk of our life, often we get lost in the crowd. We all are born with great aspirations and dreams but very few of us get a chance to live our dream. The rest of them often give up the thought of chasing their own dream. Running around to fulfill others expectations, they seldom give a thought of fulfilling their needs and expectations. And so they live a life which doesn’t belong to them at all. Stucked in the responsibilities leads them to take up a job which never defines their potential and talent. And then those responsibilities soon turn into their needs, the need to earn money, to support their family and they end up spending a life full of regrets and complain. Soon enough they get married have few kids and then the dreams which they couldn’t conquer are now imposed on their children. They want to see their children to become what they always wanted to be. Instead of letting them to lead a life where they can discover their talents, utilize their potential, again the same cycle of fulfilling their expectations and needs are imposed on their children. What they couldn’t do, they want their children to do now. Again irrespective of what their children wants to do. This cycle keeps on repeating until one day someone takes a stand and goes against everyone’s will and end up doing what they wanted to do.

If someone wants to emerge as a winner from a crowd they all have to pay its price. People who walk away from the crowd are often left alone. The price that they have to pay in the quest of chasing their dream is often loneliness. Because they end up losing their loved ones quite often while walking the path that they have chosen for themselves. You might disappoint few, lose many but in the end when you will be there where you always wanted to be, and when you will look back from there then you will get an instant flashback of what people said about you when you stood for your dreams, who all left you in the mid-way, who double-crossed you for their selfishness, everything will come out alive then. You might not have anyone by your side then but the feeling of living up to your expectations is worth it. Now you will question yourself, what is the point of living such a dream when you don’t have people by your side to celebrate your victory? Your question is right but that doesn’t mean we should not chase our dream because we might have a chance of losing people. All such things should come secondary. If the person understands you well then he/she will never leave you alone. Always look after your priority, even if that makes you alone. Because it’s better to lead a life alone rather than spending your life in regrets. If you are alone, you don’t affect other’s lives. But if you have regrets then that may show up in the life of people around you. There is a thin line between being selfish and looking after your priority which seldom anyone’s understands, and when you try to differentiate between them then you come crashing down to earth instantly. All your efforts will go in vain and again you will have to start from the scratch. Sometimes just leave something the way it is, wait for the right time; time will heal all your wounds. All you have to make sure is that your karma was good. If your deed is right then surely you will reach where you see yourself.

If we think this way, everyone comes alone and they will leave alone. Whatever we do here is temporary. But in this temporary world are we all making the most of it, which should be our mindset. Even though at some point of time if you have to sacrifice something do it, if you have to go against someone’s ill to chase your dream go ahead but never ever think of spending a life full of regrets.

What you chose is what you become. So you either want to get lost in the crowd or emerge as a winner. The choice is always yours… 

Because Winners always stand alone...